Bilal and Shaeeda don’t see eye to eye when it comes to respecting each other’s boundaries.
On Sunday’s episode of 90 Day Fiancé, the two had a huge fight, in which Bilal stopped the car after Shaeeda repeatedly put her hands on him after he asked her to stop.
On Sunday’s episode, Shaeeda, who moved from Trinidad and Tobago to be with Bilal, was eager to meet Bilal’s extended family, particularly his ex-wife. On the way to the meeting, Shaeeda was upset that Bilal felt like she was overreacting and that he was always lecturing her. When Bilal joked that he had a booger on his nose, she lightly hit him on the back of the head. Bilal, in turn, said that he needed to keep his hands to himself. Shaeeda kept touching his face and said people from her culture were “touchy.”
“We hit, we elbow you,” she said.
But Bilal wasn’t having it.
“That’s disrespectful,” he said. “So keep your hands to yourself, watch your tone, because I can literally pull over and you’ll be taking an Uber for the rest of the ride home.”
Shaeeda hit him again in the head, prompting Bilal to stop.
“Shaeeda is being aggressive and it’s making me look at her in a different light,” he told the cameras. “She’s doing it as a joke, but it’s a joke I don’t play.”
He told her, “I’m thinking you’re a violent person, and that’s what I’m not trying to be with.”
Meanwhile, Shaeeda was confused by his serious reaction.
«I don’t understand, like, Bilal pulled this horrible prank on me, making me spend the night at his old house, I think he would have a much lighter sense of humor when it comes to me giving him a little dig.» on the head, but apparently he’s not playful when it comes to him.»
The actual meeting with Bilal’s ex-wife went well, though Shaeeda said she felt lonely because Bilal wouldn’t talk to her. Bilal later said he no longer felt like going on a planned date night with Shaeeda after she had already made up, explaining that he was upset that she repeatedly touched him when he asked her not to. Shaeeda once again said she was joking.
«I feel like Bilal tends to get hurt so easily,» she said. «Where I come from, we say things, we get offended, we move on.»
But Shaeeda said she wouldn’t put her hands on him again now that she understood how badly it bothered him. But she also noted how lonely she felt in a different country and shed tears.
«I’m so, so sorry and I won’t do it again,» she said.
Bilal accepted her apology, but noted that they definitely needed more time to get to know each other.
«Right now, we’re not ready to walk down that aisle,» she said.
ET recently spoke to Bilal and Sheeda about their journey on this season of 90 Day Fiancé, and he explained the controversial prank he played on her when she first arrived from Trinidad and Tobago.