
90 Day Fiance: The Other Way star Jen Boecher says she is having second thoughts about how she wants to proceed with her relationship with her fiance, Rishi Singh.
She decides it is time to have a serious conversation. He arrives and is happy to see her. But things quickly change when she tells him what is on her mind.
Jen Boecher of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way is happy to be in India with her fiance, Rishi Singh. She says she has been thinking things through and wants to get a few things straight with him.
However, during their conversation, she notices that Rishi keeps checking his watch. So she finally asked him why.
Rishi Singh explains to her that he keeps track of how much time he has for her. He says he must explain to his family if he is not home by a specific time.
He tells her he tried to convince his family to allow him more time with her today. She realizes he is eager to be with her, but this is when she shares her new plans.
Jen tells her 90 Day Fiance that she has an idea. She feels they should take things slower. She then asks him how he feels about waiting until after they are married to have sex.
Rishi looks let down when his fiance says this. He then reminds her that two years ago, when they first met, she had no issues with intimacy. Now, he wants to know what has changed.
TLC cast member Rishi Singh looks upset by his fiance Jen Boecher’s request. So the 90 Day Fiance star tries to explain why she doesn’t want to sleep with him until they are married.
She says she fears he could get too comfortable with their relationship and change his mind about marriage. He is unhappy about her suggestion but knows the decision is ultimately hers. However, he hopes he may be able to convince her otherwise.
Jen says they need to take some time to get to know each other again. She doesn’t tell him, but she says that all the doubts her family and friends have expressed to her about their relationship weigh on her mind.
They think she is moving too fast and is too quick to put her trust in him. They see red flags and believe he comes off as a little shady.

Some TLC viewers believe that Jen is testing him. She wants to see how understanding, committed and loyal he will remain to her when sex is off the table. But Rishi Singh won’t give up. He wants to respect his fiance’s needs. But what about his needs?
The 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way couple has been apart for two years. Rishi Singh thought their first night back together would be different. He is disappointed.
And many TLC Fans find Jen’s sudden change of attitude interesting. Some viewers believe there could be more than Jen Boecher is ready to admit.