Former 90 Day Fiance star Erika Owens has shared a heartbreaking update about her life post-show, revealing a stark contrast between her current struggles and the thriving success of her ex, Stephanie Matto.
Erika, once celebrated for her vibrant fashion and bold personality, took to Instagram in October 2025 to disclose the emotional and financial toll she’s endured since leaving the TLC franchise.
In a vulnerable post, the Australian artist admitted she’s been “barely staying afloat” after a breakup, two relocations, and thousands spent in legal fees related to a property settlement. She revealed she’s already spent $8,000 and may need up to $9,500 more—prompting her to ask followers for donations and support.
This isn’t the first time Erika has faced backlash for public fundraising. Earlier in 2025, she was accused of “e-begging” after requesting help with moving costs and pet medical bills. Once seen as a fan favorite, Erika has become a polarizing figure on Reddit forums, where users debate whether her pleas reflect genuine hardship or poor financial planning.
Meanwhile, Stephanie Matto—Erika’s ex and former co-star—continues to thrive. After their explosive breakup on Before the 90 Days, Stephanie launched multiple ventures, including her adult content platform Unfiltrd, the viral “fart jar” business, and a tell-all book titled Bad Blood. Her empire has grown while Erika’s life appears to unravel.
The contrast between the two women—once united as the franchise’s first same-sex couple—has sparked renewed conversation about fame, resilience, and the cost of reality TV exposure. As Erika battles emotional exhaustion and financial instability, Stephanie’s ascent raises uncomfortable questions: What determines post-show success? And why do some reality stars rise while others fall?
Erika’s story is a sobering reminder that visibility doesn’t guarantee stability—and that behind the glitter of reality TV, some stars are quietly sinking.