LOS ANGELES — After months of explosive tabloid leaks, shocking bodycam footage, and messy court filings, 90 Day Fiancé stars Patrick Mendes and Thais Ramone are finally setting the record straight. Breaking their silence during The Last Resort Tell-All special, the estranged couple opened up to host Ross Mathews about the harrowing domestic violence incident that led to Thais’ arrest, the bitter reality of their pending divorce, and why Patrick deeply regrets calling the authorities.
The Incident: Why Patrick Called the Police—and Why He Regrets It
The breaking point of their marriage came during a heated altercation while their young daughter, Aleesi, was in the house with her nanny. As an argument escalated over their ongoing separation and travel plans, physical contact was made, prompting Patrick to film the encounter and call law enforcement.
Speaking candidly on the Tell-All stage, Patrick admitted that while calling the police felt like the smartest move at the time to immediately de-escalate a dangerous situation, the outcome was something he deeply regrets:
- A Desperate Attempt to Stop the Arrest: Patrick revealed he never intended for Thais to end up in handcuffs. Once officers arrived, he actively begged them not to take her into custody, but mandatory domestic violence protocols required an arrest based on physical marks.
- Thais’ Heartbreaking Ordeal: Describing it as the worst day of her life, a tearful Thais recounted crying non-stop for four hours in a police cell, consumed by shame and fear for her daughter. She maintained that her defensive reaction stemmed from a mother’s instinct to protect Aleesi and defend herself, insisting she is not an aggressive person.
- Dropping the Charges: Recognizing that the situation spiraled far beyond what either of them envisioned, the charges against Thais were ultimately dropped.
Divorce Filings, Cheating Accusations, and a Final Countdown
Beyond the police involvement, the Tell-All pulled back the curtain on the confusing timeline of their legal split. Clarifying public misconceptions, Thais revealed that she was actually the one who initially asked for a separation. However, rather than navigating a prolonged period apart, Patrick took the step to formally file for divorce to finalize the paperwork quickly.
The divorce proceedings have been further complicated by new court motions where Patrick alleged infidelity on Thais’ part—claims she vehemently denies. Despite the blame game and emotional wreckage, the couple confirmed to Ross Mathews that the judge is expected to finalize their divorce within a month.
Patrick reflected solemnly on the dark chapter, stating he wouldn’t wish the painful experience on his worst enemy. Yet, even as they prepare to officially close the door on their marriage, both stars acknowledged the bittersweet reality of navigating a very public fallout while trying to co-parent their daughter.